When I begin to realize I am dwelling on the things of this world instead of Jesus, one of my greatest tools to get back in alignment with Him is to study His attributes. After I spend time recognizing His character, I can only humble myself and thank Him. It leaves me speechless.
His Holiness points to more than the fact that He never sinned. His actions, attitudes, and motives all pointed to flawless alignment to the will of God. Think about what is written:
-John 6:38 He came from heaven "not to do His will but to do the will of Him who sent me"
-John 4:34 "My food is to do the will of Him who sent me"
-John 8:29 "I always do what pleases Him"
I see my lack of holiness as I read these scriptures.
The Holy Spirit makes us aware of our need of holiness, but, it is to stir us for a deeper place of commitment not to condemn us.
Once we see the need, we can turn and thank Him for our salvation and His righteousness. We begin to think as God thinks and do the things that please Him. He is our example as 1 Peter 2:21 shows us.
Holiness, then, is conformity to the character of God and the purpose of our salvation, Ephesians 1:4, "For He chose us in Him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in His sight."